I continue to be impressed with the level of sadness I feel when my small amount of time with my children is taken away. We don’t do that much, I can’t afford much after the divorce, I didn’t want to go to war and I didn’t prepare for it. I figured over time my kids, …
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How A High Conflict Personality Rewrites History
I have spent a lot of time attempting to shrug off and move on with my life. I like to think I have been very successful at this, I am happily remarried and gainfully employed. I am helping to raise on young man full time (He just started his first job! I’m so proud!). As …
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Parental Alienation The Easy Way!
Getting Started If you are reading this you already know something about parental alienation. So I am not going to bother going through the basics. There are plenty of great sites to provide clear definitions for parental alienation. Obviously these definitions are very clinical. The reality is you’re just trying to make sure that your …
Evolve
Any modern company in today’s market space has to do more with less. I hate the above phrase, but it’s a economic reality that companies ignore at their own peril. As this trend continues technology has acted as the great equalizer to make this situation manageable, if management is willing to be proactive. As a …
Blindness
So, this week is supposed to be my spring break with the kids. Ironically, my ex’s birthday fell on this week. This wouldn’t have been an issue, well, it shouldn’t have been an issue. Judge hicks specified for both parents get the children the evening before and the morning after so their special day is …
Happy Birthday!
So this year started out two weeks ago. I guess I should back track a bit. I’ve given up my regular parenting time with my kids in favor of their extracurricular activities. My Ex has continues to lobby Max and Sam exceptionally well. It’s a subtle game, start with offering the children an activity then …
Mi Vida Loco
So thus far this year my wife has: 1. Scheduled all of the kids vacation/trips on my weeks. They have missed what days off I have taken, my wif e’s birthday and a couple of family parties. No big deal. 2. Took them out of state on my week. Now, this was specifically against my …
The Fence
A young friend of mine came into my office one day a bit upset. At first I thought it was work related. He began to tell me about a young lady he obviously had an interest in, now I find relationships in this day and age interesting to say the least. All of the social …
Playing Games
I don’t play games, well I do, video games. I like a good challenge. I do tease, I can readily admit that… Today I had Max and Sam’s dental checkup and cleaning. Christa sends me an e-mail last minute this morning about the last Boy Scout meeting of the year and it’s importance. I send …
It's Monday!
Ahhh Mondays! So to start the day off, I call Dr. Foreman, the orthodontist for Samantha. I ask him to call me back to arrange payment, my wife has given me money to pay for my daughters braces. On the one hand I am happy to have such a loving wife, on the other I …